Thursday, July 1, 2010

Check it out- Page 103 in #Weddings Unveiled @wueditor

Nothing like seeing an ad in print :-)

#Wedding #Planning- When to hire a #photographer and more!

I am so blessed to know and work with such talented professionals like photographer extraordinaire Kristen Weaver! I know she is reading this with a little smile on her face (and a huge bucket of humility the size of her new WATCH!!!) Yes, Kristen- I THINK YOU ROCK! I can honestly say that photoshoots are hard, long and a little bit overwhelming BUT, the challenge of the creative is what drives me! I think the hardest part is waiting to see the final results......... (yes, I ask EVERY time "Did we get it?")  Here are a few sneak peeks of Behind The Scenes of our most recent Miami trip.

Kristen wrote an eye opening and informative blog post today about When to book your Photographer! A Must Read! Talent is scarce and if you really want the best, you should ensure that you plan early (you know that other brides are doing it too.) What are you waiting for anyway?

Then I read the post that Lauren from Every Last Detail posted today! I have posted the first two paragraphs, but this is an informative article that you should read for yourself. 

There’s a very common question that I hear from brides when they’re starting in on their wedding planning: “How early is too early to…,” or “how late is too late to…?” In regards to booking vendors, it totally depends on the type of vendor and your location. But overall, there is pretty much an order to stick to. It’s more a matter of vendors that book up quickly and trust me- the good ones book up fast!
 
1. Find and book your wedding planner. ;) It doesn’t even have to be a planner for Full Planning-  it’s just a good idea to meet with a planner to discuss ideas and get vendor recommendations. (At this time start looking for and researching vendors, particularly photographers)


Thanks to Kristen and Lauren for inspiring me everyday!
 

Wednesday, June 30, 2010

#Vendor spotlight- Invitations Sent Simply

I am a HUGE fan of simplicity and finding people who can totally make my free time more available.  As a bride (or hostess of a party) you know that there are just SO many moving parts to keep track of.........  THIS service is fantastic, and I had the chance to speak with Heather Cummins at length (she is so sweet and really a joy to work with!)


Invitations Sent Simply is a service giving your invitations the "White Glove" treatment they deserve.They make make sending invitations simple. Mail them the guest list, invitations, and anything else you want mailed with your invitations; They do the rest. Once they receive all the invitation items, we will address, assemble, stamp, and send your invitations.

The font styles are totally comprehensive and can be tailored to fit your theme!  Not sure about invitations?  They have a HUGE  selection to choose from, so this really is a treat for every occasion.

THE EASY AND EFFICIENT WAY TO LET THE WORLD KNOW!

Give Heather a call 407-614-7052 or check them out online! 
http://www.invitationssentsimply.com/default.htm


Tuesday, June 29, 2010

Real #Weddings, Casey and Chris #Florida

This was the nicest family I could imagine working with. Casey is a sweet girl with an incredible attention to details. I knew from the minute I met her that she was on top of things and we were going to get along just fine. It wasnt until the wedding day that I met Chris, as they live in Ft Lauderdale and opted to have the wedding near family. Now I can honestly say that this couple was so precious!!!! You could tell that they were not only in love, but were best friends :-)


The venue was the lovely Lake Ashton in Winter Haven, where they could not have been more professional and fun.  They went above and beyond to make the evening smooth sailing. The Master of Ceremonies was Kelly Suit of "A Premier Entertainment" who kept the party going all night long! There was not a guest sitting on the sidelines all night long.
Lovely flowers of hot pink roses, filled the room and topped off a cake that was a total hit!  Thank you to KC Photography for the stunning images!

Wednesday, June 23, 2010

#Golden #Wedding : Shades of Green Disney Wedding

When I say that i have the most interesting and fun job, I can honestly say that I never know about destination wedding couples until they arrive in Orlando. This family gathered from all over the country, by way of Alabama for an intimate gathering of generations.  I was blessed to dance with little girls dressed in spring dresses and Grandmothers with spring in their step!

Tab McCausland featured us tonight on her blog.  Thanks for you and your talent. Be sure to check it out!


I was honored to work with some amazingly talented people who made this evening unforgettable.
Venue:  Shades of Green
Officiant: Rev. Kevin Knox
Cake: Anna Cakes
DJ; Jay Edwards

A great #DIY for #weding #favors!

A more casual wedding outdoors requires a little imagination. Looking for a sweet favor to give your guests? Use clear boxes to wrap up all the necessities for homemade S’mores and  add a bit of matching ribbon to finish it off. The two bottom boxes measure 3″x3″x2″ and the top one is 2″ square. These would make a sweet guest room gift at a wedding or a nice treat for house guests over the coming holidays. This treat is a great gift for any occasion! YUMMY!

Thursday, June 17, 2010

I am in heaven with @sweetlydias



One of the best parts of my job is that ability to work with experts who have some AMAZING products!  This week, I got a "goodie box" of sweetness (both tangible and in the kind words that went along with the treats!

Let me introduce you to Sweet Lydias
Sweet Lydia’s specializes in that childhood summer favorite: marshmallow! All marshmallows are made from scratch in small batches with delicious ingredients like freshly pureed raspberries and pure Madagascar bourbon vanilla extract.  This airy confection gets wrapped around salty pretzel rods and sandwiched between graham crackers or sugar cookies before being completely coated in chocolate.
Now you know that I am a fan of anything sweet, but i have NEVER tasted a fresh marshmallow like THIS!!!!
. You might think you know what to expect from a S'more but hold onto your hat as this treat might blow you away. WOW!!
My next treat, the Peanut Butter S'more!  I think I found Nirvana in that little treat <3 The perfect blend of marshmallow and a punch of peanut butter (just like she describes!!!! YUM)
Because I am watching my girlish figure, lol.  I sample a bite (and hiding the rest so the "snackers" don't steal my stash) of the most delicious covered pretzles.
They are just too pretty to eat, but the recipients of this treat will be delighted.

 Pretzel Rods covered in Marshmallow and then covered in milk chocolate or white chocolate.  For an extra kick, try the Peanut Butter Pretzel Delight: a Pretzel rod slathered in peanut butter, then marshmallow and covered in milk chocolate!

Perfect for wedding favors, you can customize the wrapper and create a special flavor JUST for you! You must check out her site and order some for yourself.  You would be denying yourself if you dont :-)
Need some creative gifts for teachers at the end of the school year? How about a basket of s'mores?
I am now a RAVING fan of Lydia's and congratulate her on her delights. From the bottom of my happy tummy, Thank you Lydia!!!!!!!!!!!!
Look for her on Facebook and Twitter
or order from her directly at
http://www.sweetlydias.com/

Tuesday, June 15, 2010

Clara French #giveaway in #weddings Unveiled

I first introduced this cake stand last year and now my friends at Weddings Unveiled have done the same (and kind of one upped me, lol.) Gorgeous cake stands from Clara French in the Weddings Unveiled  can make a gorgeous cake SPECTACULAR! Clara French has offered one lucky reader a set of dessert plates in the color of your choice from those offered on their website. The pretty handcrafted ceramic plates are fun and functional and feature gorgeous scroll designs. They come in variety of lush glazes to mix, match and artfully blend into a festive dessert setting. (did you know you can rent these too?????)

To win a collection of pretty dessert plates from Clara French, leave a comment on this post telling us what delicious desserts you plan on serving for your wedding day. Red velvet cake? Pecan pie? We'll randomly draw from all the comments and announce the winner next Friday, June 18th at noon. Good Luck!

Two Simple Steps!
1   All you need to do is go to the Weddings Unveiled Blog
2. Mention The D-Tales and leave a comment on this post telling us what delicious desserts you plan on serving for your wedding day.

Friday, June 11, 2010

#shinyorb: Online #Bridesmaid #Dress Shopping Made Social Share

Many bridal parties have a huge challenge, geography!  The process can be long and labored as brides attempt to find that "right dress" for their bridesmaids.  Ripping pages from a magazine, running to multiple stores, searching online and sending links to specific dresses................. and THEN hoping to get feedback from the from the girls.  Welcome to Shiny Orb Dressing Rooms, a social platform enabling brides and bridal parties to shop together online. 
Shiny Orb has addressed the issue of long distance shopping for bridesmaid dresses by allowing brides and bridesmaids to step into a Shiny Orb Dressing Room. This allows various members of the bridal party to shop together while they may be worlds apart.
The bride or other members of the wedding may browse the extensive collection of bridesmaid dresses and apparel and then add their favorites to the dressing room for others to see. As new additions are placed in the dressing room, each member will receive an email indicating the update.

We love this idea............... Thanks to our friends at Snapknot for sharing this great site!

Thursday, June 10, 2010

#Coffee Talk with #ColinCowie

If you plan to see the sunrise, throw an after-party with whatever you think will keep the party alive. From colored lights to mirrored balls, from an espresso bar to an assortment of specialty cocktails or—one of my favorites—Coffee Shooters presented to guests while they’re on the dance floor. Iced and potent, they are sure to keep the party going, providing the needed rocket fuel without missing a single beat. You’ll look back at your wedding and say, “I could’ve danced all night—and that’s exactly what I did!”

To get started, rim some test tubes or shot glasses with the peel of an orange and then dip the rim of the glass in chocolate shavings and some chili flakes. In a shaker filled with ice, mix the following:

1 ounce Vodka or Tequila (I prefer Tequila)
1/2 ounce Kahlúa Especial
1/2 ounce Tia Maria
1 ounce cold espresso
Shake well, pour and you'll keep going and going and going!!

Thanks for the inspiration Colin XOXO


Monday, June 7, 2010

What was your favorite toy to play with as a child?

My old record player! I still have so many of the 45's i listened to as a child and cant imagine throwing them away!!! (they are still at my parent's house of course, lol)

Ask me anything

If you won a $1,000 shopping spree for any store, which store would you pick?

Hmmmmmmm, that is a hard one! I would have to narrow it down to just one huh......... #Sephora! I could play in there for days!!!!

Ask me anything

Friday, June 4, 2010

What is your #song choice for your Father Daughter #wedding Dance? My choice is missing.......

Ready to dance with Dad? Get Married shares our top ten picks for your father daughter dance!
Your Dad's probably been thinking about this moment since the day you were born, so make sure it's as memorable for him as it is for you. Our top ten song picks for your Father Daughter dance .

1. "My Girl" (The Temptations)
A sweet crowd-pleaser for the fun-loving bride and her Dad.

2. "Walk With You" (Edwin McCain)
The latest hit from the much-beloved Edwin McCain is perfect for dads and daughters.

3. "Isn't She Lovely" (Stevie Wonder)
A classic hit that expresses the sentiment every dad's feeling on his girl's wedding day.

4. "The Way You Look Tonight" (Frank Sinatra)
The traditionalist's choice-How can you go wrong with Frank Sinatra?!


5. "How Sweet it is to be Loved by You" (James Taylor)
Unexpected, with an added bonus-it's easy to dance to!

6. "I Will Always Love You" (Whitney Houston)
Bold, dramatic, and sure to be a showstopper!

7. "I Hope You Dance" (Lee Ann Womack)
A little bit country...a whole lot of perfect for a dad-daughter dance.

8. "Forever Young" (Rod Stewart)
A non-traditional choice, but hey, that's never stopped you before!

9. "When You Say Nothing At All" (Alison Krauss)
Listen to the words...a total tear-jerker!

10. "When I'm 64" (The Beatles)
Bring a bit of Beatlemania to the dance floor-a quirky, sweet option.

Thursday, June 3, 2010

#Sephora insider? Oh I must have this #TooFaced #eyeshadow kit !!!!!!

Naked Eye Soft & Sexy Eye Shadow Collection
What it is:
A gorgeous collection of 9 essential matte neutrals and soft shimmer eyeshadows, complete with 3 Get-The-Look cards and an applicator tool.

What it does:
Looking like you rolled out of bed flawless and fabulous is a celebrity secret, and one that careers have been built on! Now, you too can look like you were "born perfect" with this gorgeous collection of naturally nude shadows that will have you looking super neutral yet drop-dead-gorgeous for any occasion. Shhh! Nobody needs to know you didn't wake up that way.

What else you need to know:
The collection contains everything you need for a range of on-the-go eye looks in one easy-to-pack palette. The pure-pigment shadows provide a range of essential matte neutrals and soft shimmers for the perfect balance and variety. Plus, Jerrod's three easy-to-follow, step-by-step instruction cards show you how to create the perfect naked eye look for any occasion. This is a kit that will work for shadow novices and makeup addicts alike!

Shades include: In The Buff (matte ivory), Pillow Talk (light taupe sheen), Like A Virgin (matte taupe), Birthday Suit (beige shimmer), Satin Sheets (golden champagne shimmer), Unmentionables (steel gray shimmer), Pink Cheeks (pale pink), Lap Dance (silvery taupe shimmer), and Stiletto (matte black).

Check it out : Too Faced  OR Sephora

Best #wedding #proposal............. I want to do THEIR wedding!!

Monday, May 31, 2010

A great #wedding #planner can help you avoid THIS!!!!!!!!!!!

Wishing you a wonderful #memorialday

Saturday, May 29, 2010

Welcome a bigger @LouisVuitton_US to @MilleniaTweets

There is nothing more to say about the expansion of greatness!!!!!

The Mall at Millenia

The Louis Vuitton Experience!

Friday, May 28, 2010

#Chanel- #SATC2 My inspiration for a sunny day!!!

Leave it to Chanel to inspire fashion with flair.  I had to sigh when i saw these featured in the new Sex and  the City 2

Thursday, May 27, 2010

Sneak Peak- Suzanne and Elliott as seen through the lens of #TabMcCausland

There is something so magical about Disney!  I am blessed to be so close to such a magical place and to share this with destination brides.  Joining us this week are Suzanne and Elliot and they are just the sweetest couple from Alabama........  Here is the sneak peak Tab just sent over and you can see that we all had a great time!

It was a bit warm until the sun went down.  Then it was time to celebrate with some amazing Anna Cakes cake!  Tell me this isnt just stunning (and sooooo delicious!) And perfectly matched to her decor.
And I love stepping in and pretending that I have an OUNCE of photography skills (of which I like to think i do...... but these girls do look pretty amazing if I do say so myself.)
So there is your sneek peak for the day!  So much more to come............
Thanks to:
Tab McCausland:  Photography
Anna Cakes:  Gorgeous Cake/cupcakes
Officient:  Reverend Kevin Knox (thank you for sharing your birthday with us!)
DJ/Entertainment : Jay with Liquid Entertainment

Wednesday, May 26, 2010

#sexandthecity OMG #wedding #cake. The star of the movie?

They’re baaaack! Yes, the Fab Four (and I don’t mean the Beatles) Carrie, Samantha, Charlotte and Miranda hit the big screen tomorrow in Sex and the City 2 for more girl talk, glamour and glitz. Expect intrigue, drama, romance and of course, a wedding!
Yes, two characters (and for those of you who don’t know who they are there will be no spoiler alert here) will tie the knot at a grand affair in Connecticut. Naturally, this wedding scene boasts an amazing cake and we have a sneak peek of this show-stopping masterpiece created by Ron Ben-Israel. Ron’s gorgeous cakes have been featured in Bridal Guide numerous times  Here’s his 6-foot, 4-inch tall, five-layer Sex and the City 2 dazzling creation:

Yep, this baby took 50 hours to create and a staff of nine people to pull it all together. Even the cake stand was custom designed. Just take a look at the detail and sparkle of the chandelier-style Swarovski crystals:
There were approximately 4,100 Swarovski crystals used and they were all hand strung (no wonder it took 50 hours!). Ron said that his inspiration was a combination of things: a dress designed by Bob Mackie and worn by Mitzi Gaynor in her 1970s variety show and Klimt’s painting “The Kiss.” So, you may be wondering, how many guests would this cake serve? Answer: 485. And what would it cost? Answer: $32,000. OK, one can dream and it is for Sex and the City 2after all where over-the-top glamour and fabulousness is the norm. Have a great time at the movies and be sure to look for Ron’s cake in its starring role!

http://www.bridalguide.com/community/blogs/from-dianes-desk/takes-the-cake/

#BeantownBride Jewelry Giveaway!

Author: Melanie Brooks

You don't heave to wear a wedding gown made out of hemp and serve organic granola at your wedding to be a "green" bride. There are plenty of ways to have the wedding of your dreams but keep sustainability in mind.

Artist Barbara Polinsky creates nature-inspired jewelry from reclaimed precious metals and ethically mined stones form her home in NYC. Recycling never looked so good!

We love these tree branch earrings so much that Barbara generously donated a pair for one of our lucky readers. How to win: Leave a comment on the Beantown Bride blog with your best idea on how to combine a chic wedding style while staying eco-friendly. Their favorite idea wins! We can't wait to see what you come up with....

*Contest starts 5/26 and ends 5/28 at midnight.

Tuesday, May 25, 2010

Let Me Clarify - You Can Always Get It Cheaper...

There's one thing that I definitely know in life and that is you can always buy something cheaper - telephone service, flights, cars, office supplies, SEO optimization, wedding gowns, pharmaceuticals, wedding flowers, catering....wedding & event planners.  You name it and I'll betcha there's somebody out there that can give it to you cheaper...  I think that the question that people miss is:  But Will It Be What I Want?

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courtesy of http://sparkliatti.com/

Monday, May 24, 2010

Win Eco-Chic Vintage Jewelry from RecycledBride.com and OneWed!



What could be more elegant than some sparkly vintage bling to dress up your big-day style? This signed vintage Trifari necklace (worth $600) is perfect for a bride or bridesmaid, and they are giving it away to one lucky winner!

Trifari is one of the world's most famous and sought-after vintage costume jewelry makers, and this necklace is a great example of their exquisite, timeless designs. It's made of incredibly sparkly rhinestones that will light up your face (* Vintage rhinestones are much different than modern ones, and these stones look just like real diamonds)! The necklace is 16" long, and can be lengthened by a jeweler if necessary. This piece is an absolute treasure for vintage jewelry lovers, and will wow your guests with its beautiful sparkle and stunning vintage style.

Ready to Enter to Win? Here's how...

1. Leave a comment here and tell us why you'd love to wear this very special Trifari necklace.

2. Become  a Recycled Bride member to win. If you're not already a member, sign up here- it's completely free and only takes a minute.


3. Become a "fan"  of The D-Tales on Facebook.

Winner chosen at random on Monday, June 21st, at 5pm.

Saturday, May 22, 2010

What message would you want to put in a fortune cookie?

Follow your heart!

Ask me anything

Tuesday, May 18, 2010

#Wedding favors that do double duty! Guest will LOVE these!

At this point, you are probably planning a wedding after the summer months.  That means cool evening temperatures and if your guests are anything like me, they get chilly during an outdoor event.  Here is an awesome way to give favors to guests AND give them a little something special to stay warm.

Try pashmina shawls that match your decor. Place them over the chairs and they are a great addition to your decor AND serve double purpose........... plus at just $4.95 each, they are a STEAL!! Check it out.................

Monday, May 17, 2010

Wed Like a Celeb- AMAZING #honeymoon Giveaway!!!!

Spaweek.com and Weddingchannel.com have teamed up for the ultimate bridal giveaway - one lucky couple will receive the bridal package of their dreams! During the months of May and June, visitors to Spaweek.com can enter in the Wed Like a Celeb Sweepstakes for the chance to win a designer wedding gown, plus a 6-day honeymoon at the St. Regis Bora Bora Resort! The VIP honeymoon package also includes round trip airfare provided by Air Tahiti Nui and Thaiti Tourism from L.A. to Thaiti, round trip airport transfers to and from the resort, complimentary daily breakfast, one 50 minute couples massage at the resort's spa Miri Miri, one dinner for two at Lagoon Restaurant by Jean-Georges and much more! Visit the Spaweek.com website to enter today!

Thanks to Weddings unveiled for the great information

Wedding Time Capsule- Guest book option

I am a total saver of memories! I have sweet letters all the way back to Jr High, and yes, i am a Yearbook scanner to this day (they are right next to my computer :-)  In fact, i have a birthday ritual (that NOW takes me a LONG time, lol) that involves the pulling out of boxes and going through the special people and moments in my life.  So i just fell in love with this idea........

A DIY time capsule that involves your guests and your special day.

Ask your guests to bring a small, non-perishable item to the ceremony that represents their life today. Those objects made up one part of your time capsule. Think about the Items and the possibility.  I had to chuckle when i read about what was brought by the best man- a hammer (because there’s nothing that can’t be fixed with a hammer!).
You could also ask them for:

* 2010 resolutions
* Favorite memories of the two of you
* Predictions for the next 10 years
* Their favorite things today

Flash forward to your one year anniversary...... Your wedding video, your cake topper, and a ceremony of opening the Time Capsule for the first time.  LOVE this one!!!

Thursday, May 13, 2010

#Zilla Pills........... for that moment!

Finally a solution for that special someone who is having a "Zilla" moment. It could be a bride, mom, dad, groom or anyone involved with planning a wedding. Take as directed and your special someone returns to normal in no time. Refill if necessary. 
 
 
This fun, whimsical tin of mints was created by two seasoned wedding planners after after a rather trying day during wedding season. It's a great giveaway gift, part of a necessity basket for Day of the Wedding, or a novelty gift for a bachelorette party. The possibilities are endless!

Oh no the #DJ didnt- Watch the 40 second point!!!



http://bridetide.blogspot.com/2010/05/worlds-worst-wedding-dj.html

The Greenhouse Effect.- Weddings Unveiled

The Greenhouse Effect

Photographer Kristen Weaver sent us this stunning styled inspirational photo shoot entitled The Greenhouse Effect. A selection of fantastic Orlando, FL wedding professionals collaborated to style and produce this green wedding photo shoot, featuring spectacular details in a palette of earthy greens and browns combined with crisp white, as styled by April Dorsey of The D-Tales. Photographed on locaction at a hydroponic greenhouse on the roof of the Roper Garden Building, Lee Forrest Design used carnivorous plants in the florals in addition to moss, orchids, artichokes and kale. Don't miss the cascading artichoke bouquet, the moss carpet or the million tabletop details, including jeweled tarantulas, porcelain cabbages, green glassware, bamboo-inspired china and wrought-iron flatware. We love the cake with airbrushed metallic detailing, accented by an artichoke, braided palm leaves and wiring created by Anna Cakes. To see more of The Greenhouse Effect, visit the Kristen Weaver blog for more images and a behind the scenes video shot by Cinematique Films.

Credits:
Photography:
Kristen Weaver. Retouching: Jennifer Scarola. Styling: Melanie Pace. Coordination: April Dorsey, The D-Tales. Florist: Lee Forrest Design. Cake: Anna Cakes. Videography: Cinematique Films. Hair and Makeup: Jillian Caro. Shoes: Jimmy Choo and Christian Louboutin. Gowns: Vera Wang, Monique Lhuillier, Melissa Sweet, Vineyard and Reverie by Melissa Sweet. courtesy of The Collection Bridal -Winter Park




http://weddingsunveiledblog.blogspot.com/2010/05/greenhouse-effect.html

Tuesday, May 11, 2010

Advice from #DJ Carl on hiring a DJ for your #wedding

Excellent Advice to hear when planning your wedding and selecting entertainment!

DJ Carl on Hiring a DJ from Bruce Reynolds Treasured Moments on Vimeo.

Getting #married? Do you need a Planner or Coordinator

Brides seeking wedding planning assistance generally fall into two categories:
Full Service Planner (”I’m overwhelmed, I don’t know where to start, I need all the help I can get!”) and
Day Of Coordinator (”I’m a hands-on kind of gal, I’ve got lots of help, I just need a little assistance along the way“). With the onslaught of wedding planning blogs, magazines, TV shows and books along with the downturn in the economy, more and more Day Of Brides are surfacing. Being a crafty, creative, practical, “hands-on” type myself, I can totally appreciate the Day Of Bride. But with this continuing emergence of the DIY wedding, there seems to be a bit of confusion about what “Day Of Coordination” actually means….

A Day Of wedding package means that the Bride is responsible for doing the majority of her own planning. In order for your Planner to do her job (and do it WELL), she needs to know every detail you have planned. No detail is too small here. If your Aunt Becky suddenly decides to sing a solo during the ceremony, the Planner needs to know. If you are considering including a sand ceremony with your vows or want to surprise your new Scottish family with a special bagpipe performance in the middle of dinner, the Planner needs to know that, too! A good Planner will be asking LOTS of questions about your planning, maybe even asking you to fill out some forms, but sometimes details can fall through the cracks. Communication is key.

There is actually no such thing as a “DAY Of” anything. Any reputable planner will tell you that she starts coordinating the final details of your wedding at least a month out. There are vendors to contact, coordination of deliveries, set-up, strike (that’s industry speak for break-down), confirming final payments, going over every little detail with a fine tooth comb to ensure nothing has been overlooked (and trust me when I say it happens…all the time!).

Is your Planner creating a detailed Itinerary for you, your wedding party and all your vendors? She should be. And that too, takes time. Scheduling all the “major players”, letting everyone know where to be and at what time. Contact names, cell numbers and emergency backup contacts can’t be gathered on the “Day Of”. It all takes TIME.

Trust me…you do NOT want a Planner who is just going to show up on your wedding day and make sure everyone is doing what they are supposed to be doing, when they are supposed to be doing it. Because what if they DON’T? What would she do then? And how would she even know? By then, it’s too late.

Price is important here, too. A smart, budget savvy Bride will get some references and call more than one or two Planners before making her decision. She also knows that pricing should not be the deciding factor when hiring any wedding professional. A good general rule of thumb is to “throw out” the highest and lowest priced Day Of Coordinators and focus on the one(s) in the middle. Coordinating your Day Of package could take upwards of 30 hours, so consider the time and cost associated with that. A ridiculously low price quote and my guess is that the Planner is not doing all she is supposed to be doing.

One more thing; more and more vendors (photographers, caterers, florists, rental companies) are telling me that they are “this close” to not taking weddings if the Bride doesn’t have a Planner. They are being paid for a service that most likely does NOT include lining up the wedding party before the ceremony, coordinating the dances or showing you how to cut your cake. Will they help you if you need it? Of course they will, because they are professionals who love Brides, weddings and helping you have the day you’ve always dreamed of. But given the choice, they’d much rather be able to focus on doing what you hired them to do, because they are good at what they do!

If you decide to go for a Day Of Coordination package, be sure you are asking the important questions of potential planners:

* When do you officially start coordinating my wedding?
* Are you willing to look over all my contracts to be sure I am getting what I am expecting?
* Will you be contacting all my vendors?
* What kinds of details will you be asking them for?
* Will you create an itinerary/timeline for me, my wedding party and my vendors?
* Will you be present for and coordinate the details of the rehearsal?
* Do you bring an emergency kit with you on wedding day?
* Will you personally take responsibility for personal items like the cake knife/server, toasting glasses, etc and make sure they get back to us at the end of the night?
* Will you stay until the VERY end of the reception, after we are gone, to be sure any last minute issues are taken care of?

Don’t be misled into thinking that a Day Of Coordinator will (or should) show up on your Wedding Day, magic wand in hand with nary a thought for the details prior to her arrival.

If you are paying more than several hundred dollars for a reputable Day Of Wedding planner, chances are you WILL get what you are paying for and you will NOT regret it! Especially when you have the stress free day that allows you and your family, the freedom to host this joyous event.

Expert Advice from Kate Parker- featuring Avid Entertainment

Friday, May 7, 2010

Calling add #brides and #wedding #photographers






You know that I LOVE the internet and the information I am able to uncover and pass along.  Well, when I ask "what should I blog about", I mean it, lol.  Hint hint to all my readers on fb and twitter!!!

One of my new twitter friends, suggested that I highlight their website (see I pay attention :-) What a great site for connecting Brides and  Wedding Photogaphers.

If you are a photographer, you MUST sign up for a free listing!
It is extremely easy for vendor listings to get lost in the shuffle on most sites. They tend to be very expensive and involve long-term commitment, and it is not easy for brides to compare the quality and style of your work to other wedding photographers in your area. Many are general wedding sites that do not cater specifically to wedding photographers. SnapKnot is completely focused on wedding photographers and couples seeking wedding photographers, so visitors who contact you via SnapKnot will be qualified leads. You can display your best work in a meaningful visual display, and you aren't burdened by an expensive long-term contract. Upgrade, downgrade or cancel your listing at any time!

If you are a Bride:
Search the site by the city and price point that fits your budget. If you find a wedding photographer who you like, simply click on the name or portfolio image to be taken to their SnapKnot. Here you will find contact information for the wedding photographer.

Now you have heard me say a MILLION times, that you MUST LOVE your photographer.  Their work and portfolio must move you but honestly, their personality is just as important.  Why???  Well considering you will be a bit nervous and stressed on your wedding day, your photographer will be by your side ALL DAY.  A great chemistry will allow you to feel more comfortable with them around and that will result in beautiful pictures!!!

You must watch this amazing #Bridal Photoshoot

Orlando Style Photoshoot- May 2010 Publication from The D-Tales on Vimeo.

Thursday, May 6, 2010

Hiring a #Videographer/ #Cinematographer for your #wedding

Looking for a videographer / cinematographer can be a very challenging task during your wedding. I am a HUGE fan of videography, as this is the only way I have to cherish family members who are no longer with us today. The fun and their words still move me 19 years later, something that is missing from my photos. The following tips can help ensure a much smoother process and reduce your stress significantly.
1) View the creators work. You should fall in love the their work. It may take a lot of your time to visit the various videographer / cinematographer websites, but you will be glad you did. You also want to create a list of your top 3 choices because your 1st choice may not have any dates available and you will find yourself having to start all over . You’ll save yourself a lot of time by doing this.
2) Contract. The more details in your contract the better. This protects both parties and provides concrete information and guidelines for what to expect and not to expect. . Here are a few things to make sure are in your contract:

  1. Video Package –  Make sure this is specified. Does it include a certain amount of DVDs? Are you restricted to a number of footage hours? Does it include the unedited footage & the edited footage? Are there categories on the DVD, if so what? Will the video be High Definition (HD) and/or blue ray?
  2. Delivery Date –  Be sure the contract includes a completion date and/or date for expected delivery.
  3. Deposit –  Does the videographer / cinematographer require a deposit? Most likely they will. The important part about this section is not to pay in full. Definitely provide a deposit, but definitely DO NOT pay in full. I made this very mistake.  Paying them in full and not having a set date, leaves you with no video and no recourse.
3) Responsiveness. This is probably the most important item. The videographer / cinematographer level of responsiveness to you prior to hiring is a good indication of how they will be after you have hired them. If you find it takes them a while to get back to you, it could create a lot of unnecessary stress for you during and after the wedding.  If you are willing to sacrifice waiting a very long time and poor communication for excellent work, just remember, it will cause you a lot of stress and grief.
4) Popularity. A popular videographer / cinematographer can be a good and bad thing. The good thing is people like their work because it’s probably really good work. The bad thing is they may be in high demand. It may be difficult to obtain a date from them and obtain your products on time. Also their clientele may include “important people”,  so you may get bumped continuously and put to the bottom of their priority list as  This process is supposed to leave you feeling important and happy, not unimportant and lost.

Adapted from Get Married

Wednesday, May 5, 2010

How To Include Him In The Wedding Planning :-)

Love this elegant and understated Color Palette


Credits to http://azzurablog.com

Thankiing Your Parents- #Wedding Advice

8 great ways to thank your parents for their support on your wedding day.

Put it in writing

Choose a gift you can engrave so that your parents can be reminded of your day long afterwards. A sterling-silver cake server, a set of crystal wine glasses or champagne flutes or a vase, engraved with your wedding date, makes an elegant and practical thank-you.
Treat them like royalty.
Make sure all your parents arrive in style at the wedding. If you and your Dad are arriving by limousine, order a second limousine for your Mom and in-laws-to-be.
Tell them they’re still your guiding lights
If you’re planning to light a unity candle during your wedding ceremony, you’ll have a parent from either side helping to light the candle. Make that moment special by giving each set of parents a candle, a candle holder and an engraved lighter on the night before the ceremony.
Remind them of their own wedding
Decorate the table where you will be signing the registry with your parents’ own wedding day photos set into new photo frames engraved with their wedding dates. Give them the framed photos after the wedding ceremony.
Celebrate your heritage
Make copies of wedding portraits from both sides of your family and both sides of your groom’s family, going back as many generations as you can. Then make two sets of “family tree” photo collages, each “rooted” with a photo of the two of you. Frame the two collages. Then display them on a table near where the receiving line will start. Place your guest book there, too. Give the framed trees to your parents towards the end of the night.
Make their place cards extra special
Mark your parents’ places at the wedding reception with a silver picture frame, engraved with the wedding date. Have each parent’s name written in calligraphy and inserted into the frame. After the wedding, fill the frames with your wedding photo.
Toast them with style
Write a toast together that the two of you can deliver, saluting your parents’ help during the wedding planning. Have the toast hand written by a calligrapher and framed.
Thank them colorfully
Order a bouquet of flowers that matches the colors and style of your bridal bouquet and have it delivered to your parents’ homes the morning after the wedding.



Courtesy of Get Married

Tuesday, May 4, 2010

AMAZING give-away on Hot Pink Bride! Check it out..........

Check out this amazing give-away on Hot pink Bride!!!   A gold necklace and earring set called the “Freda” from Robyn Rhodes.  

“Retail value $210.00″
There are Four ways to win…
1) Go to Robyn Rhodes site and leave a comment on this blog post saying which other piece you
would like to have
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3) LIKE us on Facebook and leave us a comment on the wall
For a better chance to win do all THREE!
Just married, been married or getting married ANYONE can win!  The winner will be randomly selected Tuesday, May 11th. Good Luck ALL!!

Here is how NOT to save a few dollars on your #wedding!

Yes you really do get what you pay for when you hire a wedding DJ, those on a small budget please be careful! PAINFUL!!!

Monday, May 3, 2010

Orlando Style Photoshoot- May 2010 Publication

 You know those days when you just get so incredibly excited that you want to jump out of your skin?  Well that happened when I got a call from The Amazingly talented photographer,  Kristen Weaver...... asking me if i wanted to do the coordinating for a fashion shoot to be published in Orlando Style Magazine!  Are you kidding me???????  Hell Yeah!
I then learn that I will be working with some of the most amazing people in the business.. the bar is set high and we get to "RUN" with our ideas. So exciting to have creative freedom like this and use MY OWN IDEAS. The fun part of working on this team is that we all had little direction together and showed up with the same concept.  Look at these two photos and see how Lee and I were TOTALLY in sync here! Now when I say that Lee's talent FLOORS me, i am tempering my excitement when I highlight the following:


AND
 Really cohesive and well meshed concept!!!  Lee, I think you are just AMAZING and just the BEST to collaborate with!

There is so much more to see.......... and I wont steal any more thunder from Kristen's blog.  Go check it out and share our pride in joy!

Orlando Style Photoshoot- May 2010


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